An abuse survivor has praised an NSPCC campaign that helps keep children safe from harm.
Donna-Marie Wright was sexually abused between the ages of seven and 18 by her stepfather, who was later jailed.
Now 46, Donna-Marie shares her experiences through the NSPCC in the hope that it helps prevent child abuse.
She would encourage parents, carers and teachers to use the charity’s Talk PANTS campaign to help young children understand what abuse is and who they can speak to if they are worried or upset about something.
Donna-Marie Wright was sexually abused between the ages of seven and 18 by her stepfather, who was later jailed. ( NSPCC) (Image: NSPCC)
Speaking about her stepfather, Donna-Marie said: “He would tell me he loved me and, when I was younger, would say that it was our secret. I was not to tell anybody. As I got older, the abuse continued.
“When I was 13, he said ‘If you tell anybody I will kill you, the whole family and myself’. At that age, you just believe that is what’s going to happen.”
Talk PANTS gives adults an age-appropriate way to help children, aged 3 to 11, recognise abuse and know how to seek help.
"The PANTS acronym stands for Privates are private, Always remember your body belongs to you, 'No' means no, Talk about secrets that upset you and Speak up - someone can help.
The campaign resources include lesson plans and classroom activities for schools, and guides, a book and a video for parents.
The fun Pantosaurus mascot and a catchy song help children remember the messages of Talk PANTS.
The PANTS acronym stands for Privates are private, Always remember your body belongs to you, 'No' means no, Talk about secrets that upset you and Speak up ( NSPCC) (Image: NSPCC)
Find out more by visiting the NSPCC website and searching Talk PANTS.
Donna-Marie said: “I think Talk PANTS is a brilliant concept. Had something like this been available in school when I was young, I think it would have helped me realise what was happening wasn’t right and that I needed to tell somebody who’d believe me.”
Margaret Gallagher, NSPCC local campaigns strategic service manager, said: “It is never the responsibility of a child to keep themselves safe from sexual abuse.
"But Talk PANTS can help adults help children understand their body belongs to them and recognise when something is not okay and how to talk to a safe adult.”
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